Loving and Losing Lilly

Hello, Friends. We have been sailing in the Florida Keys for the past week. It was an adventure that our family had planned for months and a vacation that we were really looking forward to. If there is one thing that doesn’t mix, it is flat-faced dogs and sailing on hot, Florida summer days, so we decided to leave Noodles (Pug) and Lily (English Bulldog) with Grandpa Sweet Greens for the week. This way they could enjoy the week as they would prefer, snoozing in a cool house. Ha!

The week before we left, Lilly was feeling great! She napped, played with Noodles, chased the boys through the house, and even enjoyed a few rounds of her favorite game – bark at a balloon.

On Sunday morning as we were packing up the sails, getting ready to drive home – Grandpa Sweet Greens called with super sad news, Lilly had passed away. We knew that Lilly was getting old, however she was in excellent shape and health. Grandpa said that in the morning, her back legs weren’t working properly, so he carried her over to the area where her water dish. When she wouldn’t drink, he scooped a handful of water up to her mouth trying to help her. She quietly passed away in his arms. Pure sadness.

I will never forget the day that I first laid eyes on Lilly, she was sitting in a baby swimming pool at the breeders, all by herself, facing away from me. She was just out of my arms reach so I wasn’t able to reach in and pick her up, so I inched my fingers as close as I could get to her and poked her saying “Hi, Baby Bulldog.” She slowly turned her head over her shoulder to look at me, with an annoyed look on her face, she looked away and she didn’t budge. I slowly inched her towards me with my fingertips until she was in arms reach and then I picked her up. She was a chubby, wrinkly, super soft bowl full of jelly. I was immediately smitten with her, I handed her to Jayson and I could see him melt – he was hooked. We took her home with us that day.

Lilly loved to sleep in the hammock, bark at balloons, chase soccer balls, chew up tennis balls, play kill the vacuum, lick Jayson’s head, and lay in Jayson’s lap like a baby.

We will always have nothing but love, gratitude and fond memories of our Lilly dog. She was our constant companion and one of the most loyal dogs I have ever met. She would follow us wherever we went in our home, and when we left to run an errand, she would sit by the front door waiting for us to come home. She loved to lick people and if you came over to our house, chances are she licked your legs or feet as soon as you sat down! Lilly taught us that it is important to slow down, smell the flowers and take time to enjoy life.

Lilly’s passing has been extremely hard on Eben, he was only a toddler when we brought her home – they grew up together. And since Eben is an only child, losing her has had a very large impact on his life. Luckily, we have Noodles who is also a constant companion to him and her love is helping his cope. This has been a difficult time for our family, we have been spending time each day talking about all of the fun times we shared with Lilly and the wonderful ways that she touched our lives. We feel truly lucky that she was our dog, she was a lovely friend.

Lilly, we will forever love you.

In memory of Lilly Lyon.
August 12th 2004 – July 6th 2012.

photo credit Cameron Mora

Guess Who Borrowed Our Palm Tree?

Over the past few weeks, we have enjoyed watching a pair of doves nest in the palm tree off our second story balcony. Can you see her in the first photo? The female would sit perfectly still in her nest and the male would come and tidy up the nest for her. It was amazing! I decided to snap a few photos of her when she was faced towards our house.

My favorite part was when she realized I was taking photos of her – I don’t think she liked it, so I was quick.

Then, early one morning, we were able to see who she was protecting in that palm frond – her little one!

The next day, they were both gone! Have you enjoyed watching nesting birds or baby birds this summer?

Eco Adventures for the Whole Family: Busch Wildlife Sanctuary

Last week, I took the boys to Busch Wildlife Sanctuary in Jupiter, Florida. Busch Wildlife Sanctuary is a non-profit organization dedicated to the protection and conservation of Florida’s wildlife and natural resources. They offer both a wildlife rehabilitation program and environmental education and community outreach programs. They rescue, preserve, rehabilitate, and care for Florida’s wildlife that have been injured while in the wild or when they were illegally owned as pets and are no longer fearful of humans.

Busch Wildlife Sanctuary is a great place to stop for the afternoon with a picnic lunch and your camera. You can take a guided tour or stroll through the beautiful sanctuary on your own. The boys thoroughly enjoyed experiencing all of the animals, including; birds, deer, foxes, reptiles, bears, otters, large cats and many more. Our favorites were the turtles, owls, alligators, crocodiles!

If you are in the Jupiter, Florida area and are looking for a great place for a picnic and animal encounter with your little ones, I highly recommend it. Eben and I stop several times a year and always have a blast! And if you are able, please donate here.

+ Busch Wildlife Sanctuary 
2500 Jupiter Park Drive
Jupiter, FL 33458
561.575.3399

7 Eco-Friendly Beach Bag Must Haves

This summer, I have spent almost every single sailing, hanging out at the beach or swimming at the pool with these guys! And since I have been packing my beach bag every day, I thought this would be a good time to share my 7 favorite eco-friendly must haves that I pack in my beach bag every morning.

1. Beach Bag
A large, roomy beach bag to carry all of my beach goodies! Right now, I am using a bag I have had for years! When I do need a new one, I love this Beach Bag made from Recycled Sailboat Sails $75 via HoistAwayBags.

2.  A Good Book
After, spending the afternoon snorkeling or paddleboarding, I like  to relax on the beach with a good book. Right now, I am a little obsessed with urban gardening, so Urban Farms $30 via Anthropologie is calling my name!

3. A Big, Floppy Hat
My skin is super-sensitive, so I have been obsessed with wearing my big floppy hat every time we go outside. The mister picked me up a Columbia floppy hat years ago, and I love this turquoise straw floppy hat $49 via Goorin Bros.

4. Giant Organic Hooded Towel
Perfect for wrapping up on a cool beach day or after a dip in the pool, this organic chevron hooded towel $49 Teagan and Bailey is fabulous and did I mention – chevron!

5. A Long-Sleeved Rash Guard
I am obsessed with my white long-sleeved rash guard – it keeps me protected all day when we are surfing or paddleboarding. Our entire family wears long-sleeve rash guards, they are a great way to make sure your family is always protected when out in the sun all day! These eco-friendly rash guards via Sol Wear are only $34.

6. Stainless Steel Divided Containers
I like to fill our reusable stainless steel containers with fresh whole snacks for the whole family. These stainless steel containers $49 via LunchBots have four sections and an attached lid!

7. A Great Organic Sunscreen
We keep our home stocked with great organic sunscreens for the entire family. One of our favorites is Badger’s Organic Sports Sunscreen $16 via Badger Balm.

8. Flip Flops
I am a huge fan of flip flops, some of my favorite include Ocean Minded (I have them in turquoise and yellow!), Simple Shoes and these Reef flip flops $32 that support local Mayan highland artisans via Planet Shoes.

What eco-friendly goodies are packed for your day at the beach or pool?

5 Healthier and Delicious Birthday Cake Alternatives

Chances are you have a birthday on your summer calendar, which means you may be serving your child cake in the near future.  The problem with most store-bought or box cake varieties is that they’re packed full of artificial colors, flavors, preservatives and sugar. You can celebrate your favorite people and serve them cake too – just serve a fun, tasty alternative birthday cake that is actually good for them too. Here are my five favorite healthier alternatives to the birthday cake and believe me, your children will devour them.

photo credit devinf via Inhabitots